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*aylorhappy
writes:I've been dating my bf for 10 months, his parents really seem to like me. Yesterday his parents came horn earlier then we excepted and caught us in the shower together. I feel so embarrassed. My bf said that they were disappointed that we let weren't move careful and that they didn't think that we should be doing that in the middle of the day in their house. I'm worried now that they think less of me and I'm so scared to see them face to face again. We I do see them should I apologize or pretend it didn't happen Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 February 2017):
 I do understand why they are disappointed, I guess it is their house and their little boy and they don't want to see things like that. I do understand that it is embarrassing but they won't think any less off you, they just don't want to see it in their home. You do need to be more careful in future. Also you don't need to say anything to them if you don't want to, it is your choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2017): LOL!!! It's not that big of a deal. They are grown up and understand. They won't think any less of you, you're in a committed loving relationship (although you are young) so you're bound to experiment and explore. If you're going to be sexually active be responsible.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (12 February 2017):
 Whoops!
The "D" word - disappointed. Always guaranteed to make people feel guilty.
I think the important thing to take away from this incident is that your boyfriend's parents are not comfortable with you getting up to that sort of thing in their house. Granted, you were not expecting them to be there, but still you have to respect their wishes.
In your shoes, when you are alone with his mum, I would perhaps just say "I'm so sorry about the incident the other day. It won't happen again." and then just leave it.
Hopefully I don't need to stress to you the importance of using contraception, otherwise there will be lots more disappointment around than on this occasion.
Enjoy your relationship, but respect others at the same time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2017): Believe me they will forget the whole incident faster than you think but you will not for a very very long time. I have been caught in similarly compromising situations in my younger years by my elders and I still sweat with shame when I remember them. It doesnt harm though if you show your embarrassment when you meet them next time.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (12 February 2017):
 Eh, I think parents sometimes forget what is was like at that age.
However, IF they aren't happy about you two having sex IN their house then RESPECT that and have it at your place...
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (11 February 2017):
 I think just let it go, unless they bring it up. Do be more respectful, though, and if you are intimate, use condoms every single time *and* birth control every day.
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