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writes:Thanks for all who help here. I just ran into my ex and his new girlfriend at breakfast when I was out for breakfast with my friend. He looked sheepish and she just kept shooting looks that could kill my way. She has always been that way with me...defiant and hostile and I have been unable to have a friendhip or even say a friendly hello to my ex. I accept that it is over but he and I were together for years and she will not let me anywhere near him..even for a friendly association. Why is she being like this. I think people will tell me to write it off and I can but it is not great when I cannot even go over and say hello.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 some girls get very threatened and jealous by other pretty women around their man.
it sounds like this girl is such a woman.
he also feels uncomfortable because he's stuck in the middle.
ive had this happen to me once years ago (i had a friend who went i went over to say hello his gf threw dagger glances) it was only later he told me it was because she always thought he fancied me!
your ex's new gf sounds insecure, next time if u see them smile, but dont try to hang with them any longer than that.
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): That you cant even go there to say "hello" is kinda crossing the line...but you also need to understand that his new girlfriend must be scared to lose him if you start talking to him again...she´s afraid that if you 2 start talking again you might fall in love with eachother again... you know and he knows its over, but does she?? It is natural that you´re seeking friendship with him...Hope I helped you...
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