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writes:im a 33 year old female who's ex is 46. his ex always text and calls him even though he has told her to stop, she does for about 2 months and starts again he responds and is really mean to me, always starting a fight to have a reason to dumped me to go with her, telling me he doesnt love me anymore and he his tired of all the bullshit,this has been going on for 2.5 years! This time around I feel that i am to blamed for the break up since i keep pushing him away from me telling him "if he didnt like it he can call her n b with her" i didnt want him to do it and yet he did n now he doesnt even want to talk to me at all! how do i get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Dear Poster
I understand and realize you are under severe emotional stress;
BUT
I need you to FOCUS; you need to think about YOURSELF; what happened is hurtfull and is causing you pain for now; BUT
it is probably saving you lots of trouble and heartache in the future;
if this man could not stand up and MOVE ON; Vow you don't want to be 2nd best for the rest of your life!
You DESERVE the best; NOW is the time for you to "mentally" draw the line;
MOVE ON
Yeah, I know it is not easy, BUT you have to think of yourself and DO what is BEST FOR YOU.
Do not allow him the "power " over your life;
take the controll and power of your life back in YOUR hands.
You are responsible for your Happiness.
Happiness starts within ourselves.
You have lots going for you; just try to keep yourself occuppied with positive things; (he is the loser)!
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Just read kinkyboots, and it sounds similar to my ex. The annoying calls and txt at 3am. Only my ex had 'good' excuses to not tell her where to go, one of them being she could stitch him up with the tax man etc etc. Needless to say when we split a yr later (which she played a major part in) he ended up back i her bed twice. It didn't work with her though for more than a few weeks and he eventually got shot of her for good. But it was too late for us, the damage was done by that point.
So i steer well clear of blokes that are recently split from someone. When he asked me out for a drink originally, i said no because i knew he had literally just split from her. But he pushed it. They tend to be very good manipulators some people.
C xxxxxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (13 August 2008):
Why do you want him back? He wanted the best of both worlds and manipulated you for over 2 yrs.
What a bozo, surely she is welcome to him?
C xxxxx
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