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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i havent been with my boyfriend for long but i received messages from his ex saying they were still together, he told me shes obsessive and he would never do that to me. i totally trust him but its still in my mind. what do i do? i dont want to push him away by not believing him.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 July 2011):
This is a tricky one. It could just be an ex who is still in love with him and is jealous now so she is trying to rip the both of you apart. If you have no cause for concern and you trust him well then just ignore her message, this will annoy her more. If he was still with her well then am sure she wouldn't know about you, therefore it probably is just something she is making up.
However if you have the slightest doubt at all well then write back to her and ask her how it is possible and ask her to give you dates and times. Then you might be able to see if she is lying or not.
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