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writes: I need help! i meet a lad who is 18 4 months ago, we were friends, and at the time he was in a relationship which went terribly wrong for him, i was there for him to support him whilst he was moving on with his life from his x bf, we then got together a few weeks down the line, we were really happy together and i have feel in love with him, he says he loves me too, but his x bf came back into the scene when he found out that me and this lad was goin out together and now his x boyfriend has managed to steal him from me. what can i say or do? me and this lad still talk on msn but i tried talking to him but im not getting any where, this lad x boyfriend cheated on him 6 times and used to hit him and his family, i care for him alot and i just cant sit back and not do any think, i know what this lad i love was like when i first meet him, when we were goin out he told me that i was the best thing that ever happened to him that he is happy to have me as his boyfriend, ive taken time to think things through what i can do to win his love back. i know he still loves me and i love him and i think about you alot and i just wanna be with him but how can i when his x bf stole him from me.
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reader, lea22dc +, writes (15 April 2006):
That's the risk you take when you date someone that's on the rebound, especially if they were deeply in love. Some people just need time to see for themselves that someone is not good for them. the only thing you can do, that is if you're willing, is to keep being a good friend and just be there to pick up the pieces once again.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (15 April 2006):
 Nobody can be *stolen* like an object. If they go off then it is to do with their mental mindset, and they just weren't that into you.
Sorry.x
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reader, smeedle +, writes (15 April 2006):
 There is not much you can do, your ex is now your ex as he decided to go back with his ex, you can walk away with your head held high and accept his decision or you can remain his friend and continue to support him and wait for it all to go wrong as it surely will.
Be on your gaurd though as this boyfriend sounds like a violent bloke and you do not want to get caught up in anything nasty.
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