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writes: My husband put his ex girlfriend's needs before my son's and I. They have two children together (not really sure they are his ) but we have to do without for her, and after five years together it is more than I can stand. What should I do?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (7 February 2006):
 I know just what you mean, it is always tough on the second family but this sounds more that just a money issue, paying child support is something the government says he has to do and contact visits are essential for the wellbeing of his children so what else is going on?
YOu should not have to suffer and neither should your son, you are his wife and she is his ex, this needs to be pointed out as his loyalties are with you, what is it that he is doing as I need to know this in order to work through it with you.
If he is spending too much time with her or giving her money you just do`nt have that is above any CSA ammount then tell him it has to stop or you will consider leaving him as you would be better off financially without him, this may shock him into seeing your side of the problem.
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