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writes:Need a bit of advice to cut a long story short my h/b had an affair with a married girl at work i found out he finished it straight away he was off work himself for 6 months we spent all these months together 24/7 she stayed with her husband and fell pregnant 5 months later,it did cross my mind if it could be my h/b even though we were never apart turns out he is not.It has been a long hard stuggle to get us though the last 14 months but we are closer now than we have ever been i belive he is sorry and regretful for what he had done but i do have days when i am uncertain,I was on the bus the other day and she got on with her new baby silly me said to her can i ask you something i asked her about the affair she had with my h/b how things were with her and her h/b she told me that even though she has had a baby she is not happy with her h/b and what my h/b told me about there affair she confirmed but she was surprised that i knew everything that i did.I could sense that she still has feelings for my h/b She is due to go back to work in july and i am feeling really uneasy she is much younger than me slim blonde and i cant help but think that she will make a bee line for my h/b when she returns and he was weak before.I dont want to go backwards in our relationship.My h/b has applied for other jobs but had no luck and he cannot leave as we need the money we have talked about when she returns and he said he will ignore her if he can do it now how come he could nt before he embarked on the affair?Things are going ok how do i stop these nagging doubts?
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