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*handu22b
writes:Hi, i am a gay man married to my wife for 8 years, we have two kids. I am not very active in sex with my wife, for the past 4 years i had hardly had sex for 5 times. She keeps on insisting me, but i just jerk off when she is asleep on our bed. I want her to have sex with some other man, i have a young kid, in my neighbor hood who is 18, i told him about my desire. I told him to flirt with my wife and have sex with her. He sounded ok, but he is a bit scared. One night when she was asleep i told her to sleep in her bed, he slept and began to cup and rub her breasts as i watched. She was also aware of that, but she let him do that. She is also beginning to like him. Now i want him to have sex with her.
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reader, chandu22b +, writes (7 June 2009):
chandu22b is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo after all i convinced her, one day we both smoked grass. I told her about my desire. She initially was hesitant, then she began to ask,would that be possible ? I told her that it would be. She even told me that she had some one in mind. She said that he was dark and handsome. I knew this boy. I week went by,we again had grass, this time i again brought out the topic. I asked her that there is a friend of mine, would she be in trusted. She asked me to bring him, i called him to come to me. He was actually one of my boy friends. He came to our bed room, he was shocked to see her on bed. Because i only call him when she is out of town. Then i showed him a porn dvd and he got turned on. He was also drunk. I proceeded and kissed my wife, with my friend beside her. I asked him to undress and had him were a condom. She had a great sex with him. He came two times. I sent him off after that. She was satisfied i would say, because he had a big dick. She was not that intimate with him. The other day i asked he how did she feel. She said that she did like the sex, but since he was drunk she was not comfortable. She wants me to bring him again. The other dark boy, she also wants him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Why go to all this trouble of involving some kid with your wife? Soyou're gay, big deal! Just be honest with her. If you love her tell her, maybe you're best friends but you're gay. Let her make her own choices without having to feel guilty at deceiving you.
You never know she might be up for ending you relationship as a couple but remaining together to raise your child. Read the other ladies on this site who think they partners are gay. See hoe rejected and hurt they feel when they believe they are the issue. It wont be easy but youto talk as this situation is just not fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): What if this guy starts sleeping with her on a regular bases and the condom brakes and she gets pregnant from him, and she finds out to late thats shes pregnant to get an abortion. Then most of your family will find out that shes pregnant and then when she has it are you going to keep it or give it up? You have to think about everything not only today but the rest of your life. I think you should think about why you married her in the first place. Was it so four years later you can let another man sleep with her, or is it to have and to hold and love and charish one another until death. If you don't vallue marriage or your wife then why are you with her. If its for the kids lame excuse, The foundation starts with you and your wife then the kids. If stuff isn't right with you guys then it will refect the behavior of your children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): wierd, wierd.
be careful your kids or your society don't catch you out. then you will be ostracised for good.
please respect your wife. you cannot dictate who she has sex with. will serve you right if she does enjoy this young man and eventually falls in love with him and leave you. then you will be gay and alone.
you are robbing your wife of her best years, surely she deserves better than this.
in your society are you not worried that she will be branded a "whore/slut" by having sex with someone other than her husband. how will the villagers view her. you cannot make your sexual shortcomings her problems.
i wish that your wife moves on to a MAN. A MAN who will love, respect and cherish her. not someone who cannot get it up for her to misuse her like you are doing. You wife is a human being with rights, not just a subserviant someone to use and abuse. And you are abusing her. You know it, she just needs to open her eyes and will see it too. i hope she reports you to her family. they will then deal with you.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 This whole situation Is very weird. Just get a divorce instead of being in this tricky situation!
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