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His best mate hits on me!

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Question - (5 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *xTorresLoverxx writes:

Well.. my boyfriend has been best mates with this boy for about 2-3 months, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months. Just recently His best mate has been trying it on with me touching me in inappropriate places and keeps trying to kiss me when my boyfriend isnt there.He also kept getting in between us, we never we hugged or kiss he would jump on my boyfriends back or do something to get his attention.ive kept this hidden for quite sometime, the other day i burst out crying and told him what his best mate was doing to me. he was furious and couldnt believe he would do this behind his back to me, but his best mate spoke to him about it noe my boyfriend has forgiven him. im really annoyed he didnt consider how i felt an i dont know what to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

Your boyfriend a jerk for not believing you and staying friends with a man who would stab him in the back first chance he got. Why don't you get out

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntHe's jealous of the two of you, that is pretty clear. First off tell the mate there that if he touches you you will scream. That you have no interest WHAT so ever in him. To leave you alone.

He might be "testing" you, to see if you are easy.

If he keeps it up maybe suggest to your BF that you and him do stuff without the mate.

Don't let anyone disrespect you and don't expect your BF to really understand how uncomfortable it is. Stand up for yourself.

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