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writes: HeyThe guy i really like, and he really likes me, asked me out and we have been hanging out a fair bit. I get along with his family really well and they make me feel so welcome. He is my first real bf and i do really like him but since we have been going out and iv got to know him better it doesnt feel as special...Also because we kiss a fair bit they dont feel as special too, I know it sounds really silly but is this just a stupid feeling that will go away? thanks heaps Reply to this Question
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reader, mellissa333 +, writes (8 January 2007):
 You've said that you've gotton to know him better, and now it doesn't feel as special. you may really like him, but ask yourself a question, are you still in love with him? You need to take a moment and ask yourself do you still like him, and want to be with him? or Are you just afraid to loose something you've gotten so use to now, even if you don't like him anymore? Well trust me hunny, if the secound answer is it, you will feel much better if you break it off, and don't worry! he won't be your last boyfriend, and it won't be the last time you felt what you had with him before! This may not be what you want to hear, but it is the truth, known from experience.
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 This question makes me smile. This is what is called developing a relationship. While those initial "I've got butterflies in my stomach feeling everytime he walks in to the room" is a fantastic feeling, it is not realistic that it stays like that forever. You will begin to feel comfortable with not having that feeling and just get warm and fuzzy because he is around you. It's called getting comfortable with each other, and assured that the other one wil still be there for you tomorrow. As long as you still enjoy his kisses and they feel good to you, I think your doing okay, and shouldn't just give up on the whole relationship.
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