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Question - (16 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *sedandconfuseductive writes:

I've found that I am very co dependent. I just moved out frimthe apartment I had with an ex gf one week ago. We lived together about 8 months. I knew this day was coming but I stayed anyway. We didn't have much in common and she has about 130 comments about her [a gossipy website? mystery link removed by moderator]. I still stuck with it because I wanted a gf badly. The Sx was great and when she wanted to make me feel good about myself she could. Anyway I moved out on Sunday and the police were called and I got banned from my old apartment. The lease wa in her name but I paid the rent and security deposit. Towards the end we were walking on eggshells and were just mean and revengeful to each other. Now that she's gone I can't seem to stop wanting her and our old life back. We pretty much stayed shut INS when I was off of work. I keep looking at her Facebook and see her hanging out w.people and apparently she's staying w.some guy at a nice apartment taking pics of her in a bikini and with him. All I've been doing is staying at my parents and working overtime trying to get my own place. Basicallly I cried the whole way home yesterday and am having a hard time gettin over her. She told me if I could change things then she could love me like she wanted to. I changed so many things for her an she ended up haring me anyway. Help.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (17 July 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntReplace your demons with something positive. Only you can change this situation no one else can do it for you.

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A male reader, usedandconfuseductive United States +, writes (17 July 2011):

usedandconfuseductive is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I have a full time Jon. I worked 50 hours last week. It seems as soon as I get off of work...I gravitate to my demons

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (17 July 2011):

Moo's Mum agony auntYES it's a bad idea to get over your ex with another ex, what are you thinking? Do you have a job? Kinda sounds like not since you spend a lot of time inside looking at Facebook and gossipy websites. Go look for a job dude and fill your life up with something more important.

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A male reader, usedandconfuseductive United States +, writes (16 July 2011):

usedandconfuseductive is verified as being by the original poster of the question

leaving me* i wrote this from an ipod. also is it a bad idea to get over my recent ex with a previous ex?

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