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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now. we are both 19 and love each other a lot.he has been trying to get a job at this place for a while now. this girl is helping him for the past two months with barely any progression. they talk to each other through texting a lot. one time she came over at his house at 12 to give him work to do. i do not suspect anything because i trust that he loves me but i was just a little weirded out by how long it took her to help him yet he still hasn't gotten the job. the job involves promoting and modeling the clothes. and aparently i found out that he has to model with her in underwear for a photo shoot. i was ticked off a little at first because she is a beautiful girl with a nice body.anyways, he talked about his ex a lot; this was when we weren't together yet. she was the one he lost his virginity to, the first girl he loved, his longest relationship (8 months), etc. they were together and then they broke up a year before he got with me. but he never mentioned her name. and one day i just thought, "i don't know his ex's name, yet he knows all of mine." (btw, i do not talk to any of my ex's anymore) so i randomly asked him what was her name. he said it and it so happened that it was the name as the girl he's working with. i asked him if it was the same girl.... and indeed it was.i am a little pissed and confused. what should i do?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 he has kept something from you and he should have told you straight away. if this was my boyfriend i would tell him to quit the job and have nothing to do with her, change numbers and everything like that!! if he loves you he'll do it. x
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