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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My exboyfriend just got married two months ago. He sent me a friend requeston yahoo without any message on it and I decide to delete it and that was what i did.This was four days ago and he only been married for two months. The next day he sent me another friend request and i refused to accept him because our relationship ended badly. Because I refused to add him he called me alot of names and he says that I been harrasing him by using different names but while he was typing all this massages I didn't responded because he was saying alot of stuff to me. I wanted to leave me alone because he is married and I don't like to run with married people. He also says that he will do something if I don't stop contacting him or talking about him but this all lies. I haven't talk to him since the breakup and the reason why was because he is married and i am working on my self. Please help me what is his problem is he trying to put me in trouble? Because it could be other people playing round with him or saying stuff about him and it also could be a lie that he just made up. Please I need advice . The good thing is that he called me and sent alot of messages on caht but I ddn't accepted him and sisn't sya anything. He has been bagging me for like four days . Please i need advice. Do you think he is gelous but I am single and there is nothing to be jelous about . He is suppose to be happy with his wife and totaly forget about me. If I were him I would do that . I understand our relationship went for three years and he met my parents and stuff and I did the same thing too but It didn't work out because he was controlling and he would tell how to dress up and he doesn't wnat me to have male friends or anything like that . He has like anger problems. All I want is I want peace in my own house and my life. Please brothers and siters help me here. He also lives two hours from the city that I live.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Report him to the social network site security people. He is harassing you. They'll be able to tell which way the messages are flowing. Block him as well.
Be sure to print out and save the messages before you do that, so that you have a record of his harassment.
You sound as though you were the victim of an abuser. Have you made contact with any support organizations that help victims of this type? I would strongly urge you to do that, so that you have some local help.
Report and block, after documenting. If he sends another message, reply "This is unacceptable. Stop messaging, the relationship is over and any further contact from you will be reported, recorded and may be used in legal proceedings."
Then make your account completely private or delete it if you cannot and start with a new account with no identifying information in it.
He's a creep!
Good luck to you.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Block him on FB, delete your accounts on any other networking sites, and open up new ones with different usernames..That way he won't be able to contact you at all.
If you haven't been harassing him like he says, then there's nothing to worry about. He's most likely saying that to get you to talk to him. I had a married ex contact me too, but I just told him to leave me alone and focus on his wife. Then I proceeded to block him out of my life.
Cut this guy out of your life for good. He needs to go live his new life.
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