He's so nice but I don't feel attracted to him

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Last night i broke up with my boyfriend of eight months. he was like my best friend as well and we got on very well. but in the last few weeks i kept feeling like the spark was gone and that we just acted like friends when we seen each other like very little holding hands and kissing. well i asked him for space for a while but after a week it didnt make a difference. so then we agreed to meet up and talk about everything, when we did i couldnt talk much but i told him that i didnt want to break up when i was unsure if i wanted to be with him or not. so we spent the rest of the day ok with each other, and then we didnt talk after that for a couple of days then yesterday i broke up with him. he seemed annoyed and then sad. all today i keep thinking if i made a mistake, i actually dont know if i made a mistake or not? but im unsure to ask him to get back together because i dont want to be one of those people that only want to be with their boyfriend when they aren't together and when they are together they break up. im only young, but alot of the guys i was involved with before were horrible and he was so nice, but sometimes i dont feel attracted to him. i dont know what to feel, if this is just guilt or something different. any help?

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (4 September 2010):

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