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writes: When me and my boyfriend have sex, I sometimes secretly inside feel terrible. He can't see this, but it ruins the experience.I just feel like, every little thing the does, every look, every touch.. Evertything is perfect. And whenever he pleasures me, I feel so amazing inside. I love it. But I feel I can't give him anything back. He gives amazing oral, and at times, I feel I do to, because he responds. But sometimes he just doesn't respond at all.. I can't make him cum (does this mean he orgasms, by the way? If he cums?) through oral, which I'd love to, and he's often quiet when I am. Am I doing something wrong? Plus, I feel I do kind of the same thing every time.. But I don't really wanna talk about what he likes because it's embarrassing, and what if he doesn't like anything.. I'm scared he'd just want to please me, so he might lie.. How can I make oral sex more exciting?I'm scared to experiment, in case I just look stupid or hurt him. What can I do?Please help.Thanks.
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reader, musicfrk15  +, writes (7 January 2008):
 i actually know exactly how u feel. for the longest time i felt the same way. but just recently my bf told me what he wanted from me. he felt told me that he felt like he was the only giver in the relationship and that i wasnt giving anything back. he also wanted to make sure that he wasnt going overboard or anything. he wanted me to come up to him and give him a kiss sometimes instead of only the other way around all the time
hope that helps!
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