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writes: Help me before i totally blow this! Im seeing this guy just now. Its not really serious or anything, we have kissed. I really like him and we have soo much in common but im afraid that he thinks im not into him. Thing is he's cool when its just us but when his friends are there he seems to get dead shy and barely to me and im kinda shy sometimes too so its wierd when we're in company... What can i do? I'm not used to being the "outgoing" one in the realationship!Female,18
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (7 June 2006):
Well just carry on being cool, when its next just the two of you maybe suggest going along somewhere together, you mention that you have things in common so suggest one of those things and see if he wants to tag along with you. He could very well be feeling the same as you that maybe your not into him, if one of you doesnt take the chance you will never find out! Just be all relaxed about it, tell him that your into whatever it is, start a conversation about it and then say hey why dont we do something together, or just say ive heard such and such is happening soon fancy going with me ? If you dont say anything then hes probably going to think your not into him and the chance might just slip you by!
Good luck!
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