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writes:Does he like me? He's in the same group of friends as me, so we see each other quite often. He'll often sit next to me or stand near me, or follow me into a different room. He often looks at me from across the room and smiles at me, and when we're in a group laughing about something he'll make eye contact with me. He often seems to be listening to conversations I'm having with other people and sometimes joins in, or comments on something I've said. I'm too shy to say anything about liking him, and he's shy as well. Do you think he likes me as more than a friend? What other clues should I look for?
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reader, kenny +, writes (24 January 2007):
 It sounds like this guy likes you, he is showing the classic signs of fancying you alot. I think he is shy, maybe he is scared of rejection, maybe he is generally a shy person.
Do the two of you work together?
Help him along abit and suggest that the two of you do something together on evening, keep is casual. Go on i dare you, i bet he will say yes.
Good luck hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): I think if you are sensing some sexual tension between you two then there probably is...he is probably feeling the same things you are.
Some guys who are shy simply need encouragement or an excuse to be alone with you in a non-threatening way. I would let him ask you out though or make that move, but what you can do to help it along is ask him to help you with something, and since he is in your same group of friends he should be willing to help you out with something on your car or your house or whatever applies here....and then you can both start talking and getting to know each other better....good luck! By the way it is great to be friends first, those are the best love relationships!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): nahh i think he does like u!
when you really like some1 u get rele shy around them!
was like that with this lad that im not going out with! haha
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reader, cd206 +, writes (23 January 2007):
 It sounds like he likes you as more than a friend but you're both taking your shyness to the level that you'd rather stay quiet than take a risk and actually find out. What's the worst thing that can happen if you take the plunge? If you're good friends your friendship will survive it even if you have misjudged the situation and just think of the best possible outcome.
CD
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