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writes: My boyfriend of 1 year has always had a lot of female friends and is very helpful if anyone (especially women) have any problems. I see this as flirting and get jealous which I can't help but now I have proof. He has been emailing/talking to a female colleague late at night and her emails that I have seen are very flirtatious. I don't think he would ever cheat on me and I know he loves me but he also gets angry when confronted and I don't want to do anything to ruin our relationship as it would break my heart to lose him although I would finish it if I had absolute proof. I can't contront him as he also has a gambling problem which he is seeking help for and I know how good he is at lying! What can I do? Any help from anyone would be greatly appreciated..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2006): If hes lying to you then get out now!!! Once a liar always a liar and you will never be able to trust him. All relationships need trust and he is obviously taking advantage of your feelings! The fact that he gets angry with you suggests to me that he has something to feel guilty about.
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (9 May 2006):
 Firstly if you think that this guy is gonna luy to you then go...secondly if he is secretly being flirtatious with someone else he has an ego problem and this is how he boosts his! and thirdly if he gets angry when he confronts you, chances are he is hiding something....sit him down tell him you want him to listen without getting mad and tell him how you feel...his reaction should give you your answer...if he is not willing to respect your feelings and makes excuses or lies then he isn't worth it...I truely beleive that gut feelings are always right!!! Trust yourself.
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