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writes: I resently logged into one of my exs profiles on the internet only to discover he’s been messaging a girl who lives almost half way across the country.I thought I was funny when he started talking about moving there to go to college. (He’s never had any desire to go to college before)I read a few of the messages they’d sent to each other and from what I could gather he phones, texts her and plans to visit her soon.and from what I read start a relationship with her.I also noticed he talks to another ex on the profile…one who he hated and who hated him.I really don’t understand his behaviour.He’s meeting and moving in with a girl he’s never met and talking to some one he supposedly dislikes and he doesn’t even bother to call me any more even though we’ve been friends for two years and have never had any bad blood between us.I also don’t understand why an attractive, out going 18 year old boy as to go on the internet to meet a girl friend and why he wants to move away to be with some one he's never met b4.Isn’t that what 40 year old divorcees do?
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (30 July 2006):
 Instead of taking it too seriously I suggest you have lots of fun, create a profile, send him an e-mail or include him on your messenger and make him look forward to meeting you then you decide what to do but remember it's a game...and that he is showing a childish behaviour on the net that could hurt you if you're still a bit hanged with him... try to note down the reasons why you dropped and well look around for new guys ok? there are plenty...
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (27 July 2006):
 You been snooping and accessing his business when you have no right. He's your EX, get over him!! Stop dwelling on the past, think of the future, you sound young so you have LOADS of time. Enjoy your singleness and have FUN!!!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 Oh dear sounding a bit bitter there! Fact is hes over you as you can see hes moving on. Perhaps you should to. Friends will come and go in our lives as will some partners. By the sound of it you are very young so stop logging in to your ex's account and go and get your own life, its clear this logging in when you shouldnt be isnt doing you any good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2006): As with Suorpio, he's your ex. Move on. Stop lingering in his business. End of story.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2006): Why are you meddling in your ex's online life? Who he dates is his business - if he wants to try the internet dating thing, and if he doesn't want to discuss it outright, that's his business. What you're doing counts as stalking in every sense of the word. If you still have some kind of lingering interest in him, tackle it head-on and talk to him. I'm assuming he told you his passwords while you were still dating - well, however it is you came to know them, it doesn't entitle you to use them now. Stop.
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