A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:About a month and a half ago I met this gorgeous guy (the kind of gorgeous that only exists in movies) and he has an absolutely amazing personality. I couldn't believe he was single. The day we met the friction between us was so intense that by night time we were in each others arms crazy for one another. We have quite a lot in common, he makes me laugh like no one else, and he's immensely intelligent. He also has a like million friends and is quite well known around the area. He is so kind to me and makes me feel really special. We have been seeing each other almost every single day since we met, we just can't keep away from eachother. Note that he lives over an hour away from me so that's quite an effort!The problem is this. I haven't lived in the area for very long, in fact I'm not even from this country, so I have virtually no friends. I have no significant education, and he's always correcting my grammar when I speak. He always wants me to go and see him, he doesn't like coming to see me, and when he does come and see me he turns up just before midnight and by then I'm ready to go to bed! This is getting on my nerves a little bit as it takes me way longer to get to work in the morning from his place, for which now I am always late. He also is extremely good looking, and I am somewhat average looking with very small breasts and lack lustre hair, and his personality to match makes him even more sexy, and I'm worried that he'll be easily swayed by other more beautiful women going after him. Another thing is, I know it's only been a month and a half and we aren't officially in a relationship, but he "liked" a skanky babes and bikes facebook page where the page is littered with scantily clad women with large breasts and perfect bodies. This bothers me because he's never "like" anything like this on his page before, until now. It kind of makes me feel like he stills considers himself "available" or something, and that I'm not attractive enough for him. I was getting ready to tell him I love him, but now I don't know. I think I'm being silly, but it's getting me down a bit and I haven't really let myself open up or fall for him because I'm afraid of being hurt. I guess you'd need a bit more back ground to make a judgement, but that would just be waaay too long and boring lolAny advice? Am I being silly or have I got good reason to be worried?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2012): I would be more worried about the fact that you seem to describe yourself as so inferior to him. Relationships should be about equal effort and communication. It does not seem as if he's giving you that or making you secure.
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