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41-50,
anonymous
writes:A good male friend of mine has been obsessing over a girl that is no good for him. He agonizes over her problems with me and admits that she does need help, though he wants to be with her. I've offered general advice but am afraid to tell him what I really think of her b/c it could definitely be construed as jealousy. I think he does need to find someone better, though not necessarily me. How do I convey this message without coming across as trying to pry him from her only to focus on me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): It is a hard one as telling the truth about this girl could give out the signal plus could possibly ruin the friendship that you have with this guy. This isn't fair on you to be dragged into this situation which should be only shared between him and his girlfriend. Tell him to chat to her about it and sort out her problems together rather than chatting to you about it. Hopefully he will and they will sort out the problems that she is facing together.
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