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writes: My bf of 4 years has just this minute told me he's not sure what he wants anymore. Im 21 and he's 22. We've had our problems in the past and 2 years ago I stupidly cheated on him which I confessed to the next morning. I know this doesn't make up for what I did but I realise how much it would affect everything and evertone if I kept it hidden. After a few bumpy days he decided to stick by me. Ever since then he hasn't been able to trust me and the love has gone way down, which he's only just told me. Now he doesn't know if he wants me or not. I love him with everything I am and learned from my silly mistakes. He can't decide what he wants, I don't know if it would just be easier to end it myself even tho I know it'd hurt so bad. Any advice??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): to be cheated on is the most painfull experience ever. and takes an awfull lot of effort even to give someone a second chance. the fact he gave you that second chance suggests he has feelings for you.
it was you that commited the crime, who broke his heart. yet your expecting him to just forget it like that?.. if you really want this man you have to proove to him you can be trusted again, and if you cant do that then you should just be humane and end it with him
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): If you love him and if he isn't clear then don't end it...it'd just be silly ending it if he does still love you...talk to him about this. Trust is hard to gain once you lost it and he might be just afraid....let him know you will be with him and that you won't do it again...I'm not sure if this would work but just let him know that you love him....if he wants to end it then I guess he doesn't love you enough to trust you heh? so if he wants to end it then he's not worth it....I hope I'm not making things worse
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