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writes:Well i like this guy sooo much and he knows that i do but he dosent have the same feelings as i do and it kinda hurts when he tells me about his gf's cause i know that we will never be together but he is my best friend he is like my personal i guess theropist cause he helps me soo much with my life and gives me great advise for everything and we talk all the time and he is really sweet and cute....... but will he ever like me?? it seems like i can only dream about the perfect guy and he IS THE PERFECT guy and i know that he would never hurt me cause he knows how emotional and fragile i am and he isnt like that he would never want to hurt ANYONE he REALLY helped me get thru my last break up he was there for me even when i would call him at 3 in the morning i just dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XOXOX
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reader, Haruka62442 +, writes (1 September 2008):
I went through the sxact same thign when i was 15.I actually didnt get over him till the begining of summer and it took a real reality check frommy friends to snap me out of lala land. It will be frustrating but the more he is a frfind to you the harder it will be fro yourself. stop using him as your theropist, and learn to deal with things on your own. You will become stronger and less reliant on him and eventualy find someone who may be even better for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): i went threw the same thing last year for about 6 months he was my neighbour across the road and we were eachother everyday for hours...but in the end some things hppnd and we stopped speaking and i hated him i realized that i dont love him..and now that were speaking again he likes me and im completely over him!!!!maybe you need to be away from him so that he can miss you and hopefully realize that he does have feelings for yougood luck
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