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writes:My boyfriend is moving in 2 to 6 weeks. The only time I ever see him is at school, but now he will not go to my school. He isn't moving very far away, but I won't be seeing him anymore if any at all, because my dad just doesn't want me around him. Even if I do get to see him, it'd only be a few times a year. So how do I cope with this? I don't know how to handle him not being there anymore. I tried to tell him that we should break up, but he called me crying and wouldn't let me break up with him. I'm not sure what is best for this situation really. Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2011): ^Thanks for replying. I can trust him just fine, but the only thing that bothers me is that he has to move away from me..As stupid as it sounds, I kept crying about it yesterday, just because I kept thinking about him not being there anymore..My dad has never liked me thinking about any boy, honestly. He wants me to be his "baby" forever. But my dad talked to me about this yesterday and he said that this isn't gonna last, and that I need to find someone better because he wants what is best for me..but I honestly think that he is what is best for me..Now I just don't know how to handle not seeing him..
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reader, patersonOx  +, writes (31 January 2011):
i'm in a long distance relationship right now, my boyfriend moved to australia last november and isn't coming back till this november coming, leaving me in scotland. we both never wanted to break up but we tried it and yet we ended up back with each other, a LDR takes alot of work, trust and ain't easy but if you like or love the boy enough then it should not be as hard. you should tell him to give you a day or two to yourself to think things over and think about the good point and bad points if you stayed together, walking away from someone when you don't want to can be really hard but with the right support it can be easier, but in my position i couldn't stand the thought of the boy a loved with another girl and he felt the same about me, but your relationship might be different, but i suggest you don't make to quick a desision think about what you want, your dad just wants whats best for you and doesn't think you should waste your time on him if he's moving away, my mum was the same but now shes totally changed her mind about him seeing that he makes me that little bit happier, also your dad is probably just scared your growing up to fast thinking about keeping a relationship going long distance as it is a hard thing to do.
hope this helped xxxx
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