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writes:I've been in my current relationship for a few months now. It has its ups and downs. But here comes the low. My bf has 2 kids and I have 1. We talked about having kids and first he said he wanted another kid by the time he's 30. He's 25 now. Then he says he wants one by the time he's 27. Now he wants one by next year. I want another child soon, but I'm still raising my son, he's 3. And I don't want to rush and have a baby and take away from the time that I spend with my son. And plus I want to be married before I have another child. But long story short we had unprotected sex recently. And he asked how would I feel if I got pregnant. And I told him the truth I would have mixed feelings about it. So now he feels like I just don't want any kids with him and that I'm saving myself for some one else. None of which is true. And now he's not talking to me and its bothering me. Bc I really do love him and I do see us having a kid one day. But he's taking wat I said personally. What should I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): Sit down and tell him everything you just told us. Explain that you'd like to be married first. It isnt a bad thing that you'd rather bring a child into a commited relationship. I am sure if you communicate everything will turn out fine. good luck!
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