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female
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anonymous
writes:i'm 13 years old and i wanna find out if my brother is abusive.he is always bothering my sister about her sicking her thumb.he is always bothering me about how slutish i look(but i don't).he is always bothering my other sister about how she is going to b a lesbin when she get older.he is always bothering my other brother about how skinny he is.i am 1 or 5 the 3d born.my mother and father can't do anythink about it because he is 2 powerful 2 them.i c him as a coward who likes to make ppl cry.he refuses to get help,so i desided if he does something wrong to 1 more person i will tell some1....only if he is abusive.plezz tell me if u think he is or not..i don't want to get in a mess 4 no reason.please and thank u Reply to this Question
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Hi there babes,
You don't say how old your brother is ????
Does he only do this to his family or is he like this with everyone?????
All brothers and sisters tease one another and it can be very hurtful to the one recieving all the abuse, you mum and dad really need to do something about this if it is affecting you all like this, I know you said they can't because he is too powerful but something needs to be done here darling???
Tell your mum you can't take it and try and get him some help from an outside source, anger management or something...
He is obviously lashing out for a reason and I don't know why???
Please try tlking with your parents babes with the back up of your other brother and sisters I am sure they will understand how this is affecting you...
Good luck darling, Take care
Love Donna xx
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female
reader, love-him +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Hi babe, your brother is a bully, and needs to be told how he is feeling, and maybe to see and get a feeling of how he is making everybody else feel. I agree tell someone if he does it again.. I hope i helped & good luck. Mail me if you would like to talk x x
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