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He's married and I have a boyfriend but this guy keeps touching my bum!

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Question - (9 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Um I have two questions actually so here goes:

1. This is a bit stupid to be honest but Im going to ask it anyway, im anaemic and when I smoke (because Im an idiot like that...) I get quite dizzy, are the two connected?

2. Theres this guy at work who is quite alot older than me and we've always got on well and had a good fun friendship and its all ways a teeny bit flirty. HE is married I have a bf- I HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR HIM WHAT SO EVER but recently he's started to touch my ass when we walk past and get closer to me, I dont feel awkward about it, well i do a little bit, but the worrying thing is when he does it I get quite turned on! and i dont want to!! i have a bf, i have no feelings for this bloke! whats wrong with me? also ive told him in a jokey way to quit it :S

whats he thinking? is he just messing? and y does this turn me on when it shouldnt?

argh

please help thanku

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008):

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ahhh

im now really tempted to get with this guy

but i musnt eek.

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (10 January 2008):

Be serious and tell him again to quit it.It seems you don't wana admit that you enjoy it too.He'll end up seducing you though i usually think it's harder to seduce a woman unless she's da 1 seducing you.

Take care.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2008):

starfairy agony auntYou need to be firm with this guy, he's not taking you seriously when you tell him to stop. How would his wife or your boyfriend feel if they knew? He's overstepping the boundaries and putting you in an awkward position.

As for the getting turned on bit, I wouldn't worry too much about that. Might be hormonal...Save the feelings for when you get home to your boyfriend :o)

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