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writes: I have an urgent request, my friends are sick of me asking and im spinning with this. The guy ive loved for years is leaving to go travelling tomorrow and ive found out he has a girlfriend out in oz who he is meeting up with. We dont talk but occasionaly text we were suppose to meet before he leaves but it hasnt happened as i am having going through a bereavment at the moment and dont want to meet him when im like this. anyway question is do i text him and wish him a good time etc etc and drop out on the text that im still crazy about him and will miss him???thank you so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): had a reply he put thanks miss you, ill let you know when im home xxx
im guesing he still feels something then, dont know about this supposed girlfriend but will just have to wait i guess
what do you think ??????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): ok ill do it in a bit - text is a bit of a cop out but under my circumstances i hope it will be ok
its annoying how the girls have to do the confessing isnt it never like the films when they come to you
thanks for your advice
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 August 2008):
He may not reply, but I bet he will think about while he is away. And you never know, he may come back to you. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): thanks so just tell him then i just thought id say that ill miss him and that im still crazy about him i dont expect him to turn up and say he wont go he ould never do that... he wont even reply im sure
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reader, Laura-x +, writes (14 August 2008):
Yeah, tell him exactly how you feel before he goes, because once he's gone you will regret not telling him and he could change his mind. Pour your heart out! :) Good Luck! xx
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 August 2008):
Oh thats so hard!!
Normally I would say that you should leave him alone to meet up with his g/f, but under the circumstances I think maybe you should say something to him, otherwise he will never know.
Be prepared that he may not feel the same, but at least you wont live wondering 'What if' I had told him.
Good luck XX
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