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writes:i have been in a relationship for 5 years with my boyfriend. we have 2 kids but the only thing is that throughout our whole relationship its been tuff. by tuff i mean we started off on the wrong foot, ever since the begining of it he always had to tell me to show him affection. and he has always said that he doesnt trust me.all of this started along time ago and still here we are together. only thing is that now he wants to split up. he says that he doesnt think he will ever be able to trust me. he says i made him go through alot of pain because i he never felt loved and he never got any affection from me. is there any advice out there??
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reader, likewow99 +, writes (17 January 2009):
Show more affection.. kiss him, tell him you love him && do sweet things for him. Maybe give him massages.. rub his neck.
Why doesnt he trust you? if u did something to lose his trust, u just have to work REALLY hard to get it back.. never lie to him EVER, even about the dumbest little thing. If someone you don't trust lies about dumb things then it makes u wonder what else they're lying about.
let him know that ur gonna change.. n make sure you do make an effort to change.. let him know that it's worth his while to stay with you,
good luck
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