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writes: I dont like myself at the moment. Today i was incredibly happy, i realised how fantastic my friends are, im seeing a great guy... yet now i feel so so different.I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks, and he is lovely... brought me a lovely present and at the start made such an effort... i feel that over the last week i have been ringing him to arrange when we are seeing each other-but that may be because of practicality (his internets down)I lost my virginity to him... at the time i was happy, and right now im not regretting it, just the circumstance it happened in. The thing i regret most is that he told me he doesnt want to be in a serious relationship at the moment (he stressed the "at the moment" part, suggesting he may do soon)what do i do from here? where do i go? i have no one to turn to...xxx
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reader, Francesca91 +, writes (11 December 2009):
It is good that you two have discussed this and you know his intentions. If you really like this guy (which I think you do) then he is worthing waiting for. He needs time before he is ready. Give that to him. Patience is a virtue my friend. Enjoy what you have at the moment. He will tell you when he is ready.
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