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Help!!! I don't know where I stand with him...

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Question - (10 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey Guys,

I recently went back out with this guy i used to date and our reltionships never quite worked and i can't remember why. so after we broke up and i recently saw him at a friends engagement party and all my feelings came flooding back for him.

So I as if he wanted to go out for a drink and chat sometime and he agreed, anyway this day came round we went for a meal and then went into town. Trouble is although I know I love him we seem to not talk to much or run out of things to talk about.

So he stayed at mine and eventually we ended up having sex and I drove him to work. I took this as a sign as we are back together but every time I ask if he wants to do something he just says he is busy.

We are off to another friends party tomorrow night and i dont know what to do or say! Or is it me just presuming we are back together.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

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hey guys,

talked to him last night and he said that night was just a bit of fun but he also said he knew how i felt for him and he said it would not work if we started seeing each other again and so we will just stay friends. I am absolutley gutted and confused why would he have sex with me if i knew how i felt. Now i am confused what to do cos i feel like crap!

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A female reader, Francesca91 United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2009):

Although he has given you signs of being in a relationship,he also seems to given you the cold shoulder. He may be geuninely busy. The best thing to do is to talk to him. Ask him want he wants. If he is confused or needs time, give him that. But everyone does have their limit.

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A female reader, Francesca91 United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2009):

Although he has given you signs of being in a relationship,he also seems to given you the cold shoulder. He may be geuninely busy. The best thing to do is to talk to him. Ask him want he wants. If he is confused or needs time, give him that. But everyone does have their limit.

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