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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot and we have been together for almost a year and we just broke up because he doesn't want to deal with fighting anymore. What should I do because I don't want to fight either?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Fighting is only bad if you consistently fight about the same things and never solve the problems that lead to the fights. Maybe he is sick because things never seem to change. You have to look at yourself and figure out why you fight and talk to him about it. You'll never know how he feels till you ask. Communication is the key.j
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 wat do you fight about??alot of people have this problem but you shouldnt give up. try getting back but taking it slow and not spending too much time together, if the fights are about small random things, then it could be because your both smothering eachother and just need to balance out your time. if its about more than this then you need to try and work throught it. suggest this to him and see how he takes it. if he is point blank refusing to try, then maybe your better off without him!!hope this helps feel free to email xxx
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reader, JessAgonyAunt  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Hey, there's nothing you can do really, he's the one who has broken up with you, so he prob doesn't feel the same way anymore? but if he does and is just fed up with the arguements then make a fresh start and try not to aruge as much, if he doesn't want to be with you then just move on because you are still really young! and you have loads more chances with diffrent boys
jess xxxx
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