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writes: dear cupid a boy i met at a coffee shop and he asked for my phone number which i gave it to him. he texted me and we got talking. we arreanged to meet for a drink but that night i was with a friend and so was he. then later with text messages he started to tell me that he wanted to be honest with me from the start. we had another date just the two of us and he told me how he is in trouble with the law and that he really wanted to be with me so he left the decision up to me. i said to carry on and see where it all goes as i really like him. we have only ever met twice after that and this has been with friends around. he never really bothers to text me or call me and when i text he does reply but when i call he makes excuses like he is busy. he still keeps saying that he wants to carry on but i hate it when i have to be the one to remeind him to send me a text or call me. i really do like him a lot but im confused ahout what to do. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): No, he is not worth it.
Rythmandblues and Angeloflove are right. He's been in trouble with the law; is unreliable - he SAYS he wants to be friends with you, but doesn't get in touch unless you do.
Actions speak louder than words!
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (26 December 2006):
 Deep down you know the answer. No he is not worth it.
Unless you enjoy being miserable.
Move on and live your life.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): You do not want to carry on a relationship with a strange boy you met in a coffee shop that is in trouble with the law, which sounds like he has not been caught yet, or has not finished his sentence or parole or whatever.
You don't know anything else about this guy, but what you do know is not good, and he has already shown you that he is not reliable by not calling you, and you should not pursue a guy like that anyway, they don't like it very much.
Don't you think you can do better?
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