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30-35,
*ampy Girl 16
writes:My boyfriend split up with me a week after he cheated, and my friend was there for me, hes 19/20, and I've just turned 16. He's always been there for me in the past, and i sumtimes feel like i have feelings for him, do i tell him?? but to make matters worse he is in a band with my ex!!!
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reader, thor +, writes (29 March 2007):
 is he a friend or have you fancied him while you where with your ex. maybe he should have been first choice. i too have a female friend that i turned to but she had a bf. i like her but dont want to get with her incase i spoil the relationship we have. good friends. him being in a band with your ex also makes it awkward. it could split up his band, they could fall out of friends then you might feel guilty, he might resent you for it. it could be an uncomfortable relationship. if he likes you though and wants you go for it but if not look somewhere else. you are still young and there is plenty around the corner
take care
berni
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