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He's having an affair with another woman, and we are all sharing the same house. Does he love me?

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Question - (7 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2008)
A female Fiji age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hello dear cupid, i just want to know whether my partner loves me or not because he's divorced and 20 years older than me, i'm just 22 he's also having an affair with another woman, keeping both of us in the same house, i just want to know whether he loves me or not cause i love him badly and i can't leave him at any cost, can the other woman go away from our lives or will she stay with my boyfriend forever

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (7 March 2008):

O Connor agony auntoh my god WHAT? you mean to tell me that the 3 of you are all living in the same house and he is sleeping with both of you? wow - how long have you let this go on? this is sick if you ask me. of course he doesnt love you!!! what on earth makes you think that he would? please hun get out now!! by you and her both staying with him - you are making it ok for him to treat women like this, and it is most certainly NOT! dont try rationalising with him or anything, please just leave now. email me if you want to babe, good luck, you deserver SO MUCH MORE!! xxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, LIERIN United States +, writes (7 March 2008):

LIERIN agony auntGet out of this relationship!

He is just using you!

He does not LOVE YOU AT ALL!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

Of course he doesn't love you. Why would he treat you in such away if he did.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

Girl pack your bags and get outta this mess asap!! He doesn't love you, this other girl or anyone only himself I'm afraid. He is only using both of you for what he can get from you.

Be stronger than him - show him that you are not a weak pathetic girl that needs him, that you are a strong person who won't be treated and degraded by him like this no more. If he loved you as much as you love him he wouldn't be flaunting this woman in your face.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (7 March 2008):

AskEve agony auntWhy on earth would you allow him to move this woman in and you still be there? Is it HIS house? He's walking all over you here. Why don't you leave? Have you no place else to go? Stop being so dependent on this man, he KNOWS that and is having his cake and eating it from both of you!

~Eve~

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A female reader, Jovial South Africa +, writes (7 March 2008):

Jovial agony auntI guess just like you she cant leave him at any cost. the fact that she came and moved into a house with another woman living there it means she is determine to be with him like u.

I say break your obsession with this guy a man who loves and respect you will never treat you like this. you deserve so much better and its time u go out there and find it. He is not worth your love and dont bother to fight for him because the fact that she is living with u he has his cakes and eating them dont be surprised if he brings the third one.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

Hi Hunny

Oh my goodness sweetheart I want to come and get you right now, This man is not treating you with any respect at all hunny, This woman will only leave if he tells her to and he has invited her into your home to have an affair under your nose...You will have to leave it to them both (WELL ID BE GONE NOT BEFORE PUTTING A TON OF MANURE IN HIS LOUNGE) Hunny you sound so sweet and kind and he is taking the p**s out of you, you have to see that, I NO YOU LOVE HIM AND HE KNOWS THAT TO! So he hasnt got to do anything to make you happy has he, He is quite comfortable with his little threesome, Hun think very clearly this will get you down well it is getting you down and it will only get worse so you have to get strong to face this so you can understand what kind of man you love, Im sending you a link on self esteem hunny as yours has taken a nose dive ok,

http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php

You have a read of this love and please try and see him for what he is and no you can do so much better sweetheart WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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