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writes: Last week, I went out with a good looking guy. We arranged to meet at 11 o’clock in the morning at Department Store. I was there on time. After walking around with him for a while, I found something strange in him. He seems like a gay. His action is too gentle and soft. He talk very polite. Is he a gay? I'm not sure,I think he is gay. Do I should break up with him or watch his reaction for a while? Could you give me some advice? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (29 August 2005):
See, this is the very thing I can never understand about women. First, women always complain that all straight men are pigs and its hard to find a nice, decent, gentle guy anymore these days. But when they do find that in a guy, they always have something else to complain about it!! Ironic isnt it?!! Look, how can it ever cross your mind that he is gay?? If he was, wouldnt you think he'd be trying to date a guy, instead of wasting his time on you? And just for your information, its usually never possible to turn a gay guy straight!! You're reading wayyy too much into things if you ask me. Probably you had it good, too good I would say. He just happens to be very in touch with his feminine side, which is a quality not many guys possess nowadays so you should be thanking your lucky stars he has his eyes set on you!! Hope this helps.
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reader, Anastasia +, writes (29 August 2005):
Lol...watch is reaction for a while honey...it could be he is just cultured and refined. Don't lose too much sleep over it. Even if he is gay and you guys just remain friends...gay guys are the most wonderful friends you can have on this earth. You are a lucky girl both ways...smile
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