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writes:I dont know if this guy likes me or not. He's a friend of mine from university.I think im really into him, i dream about him and get jealous when he talks to other girls. I did think he liked me too, he flirts with me, always makes sure he sits next to me in lectures etc.But today i innocently asked him to come out to the cinema with some friends and he started making the most ridiculous excuses. I dont know why, i felt so rejected and now im wondering if he likes me at all. Surely if he liked me he would want the chance to spend some time with me outside of university? I dont think hes ever slept with anyone or had a serious relationship, which he knows I've had a long term bf. I sometimes wonder if maybe this puts him off. Please help. Id like him to make the first move because i think I've made it obvious that i like him. if i make the first move and he rejects me id just die with embarassment
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Hi. He may like you, he may not, but are you really that desperate to find out? Would you not be much happier with someone who is not afraid/confused to SHOW and TELL you he likes you and by his actions?? ie going to the cinema and spending time with you?? You need to stop with the analysis (Trust me I know, Drove myself abit nuts), keep the guy as a aquientance and let this guy play his games by himself which is what I suspect he is doing. Giving himself a ego boost at ur expense as long as he is comftable. I fell for a guy like this and I completely embarassed myself. Don't you go doing the same thing and save your precious time. Enjoy yourself, make new friends, hell, even get a boy friend , who cares as long as YOU feel happy. Go and enjoy your life and then let him come running if he wants, if not u will be WAY to BUSY having a GR8 Time! Good luck.
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