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writes: SHOULD I STAY IN MY RELATIONSHIP IF MY BOYFRIEND CURSES ME AND SAYS HURTFUL THINGS TO YOU? HE EVEN CLAIMS I AM NOT STRONG ENOUGH. WHY SHOULD HE HURT SOMEONE HE LOVES?THIS IS MY STORYI love my boyfriend very much I told me don’t talk to me and up to now he has not called. My boyfriend is emotionally abusive to me at times when he really gets mad he curses me so much and in addition hurts my feelings tremendously and I keep staying in the relationship because as I said I love him so much. One thing he always want to have sex with me and I feel like it is all about sex for him and one day he told me if it is not about sex because he is still with me. He makes me so depressed and stresses me out. When we get into big argument s he keep saying rudely what do I want from him and keep telling him all I need from him is too treat me better and respect me. I mean I do so much for that boy I take any little money I have and buy him so much things and even not one day he will say let us go to the movies. I have to ask him and then I have to end up paying. I don’t deserve all this treatment and deserve to be happy. We have been together for almost three years and it is hard to break up with him and not only that he is my best friend. I cry every night when he hurts my feelings he says i am not bold enough. but how can someone treat their girlfriend with disrespect. How dare him! Their is so much things going on in our relationship that it is so painful and it hurts deeply. I have never treated him the way he treats me.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (4 March 2006):
 Lose him....you can do better. He is an emotionally stunted idiot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): My advice will be...........LEAVE HIM..............so your life won't be miserable!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): What warrants love? Dejavu... [ahem] Why do you love him? Or are you just desperate for love that you will ping your emotions on the first person that comes your way?
It is so obvious what you should do. So damn it, just do it!
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