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He's distant most of the time, but then reappears out of nowhere!

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Question - (17 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 7 month now. Before we use to see each other more becouse i was in school and i sneak when i had the chance to see him and he will meet me no matter what.. lately becouse school is over i havent had much change to go out but when i do i try to contact him to see me and he always has an excuse.. he calls me less tham once a week doent answer my call or my text and them he appers like nothing.. what should i do i feel tired of being after him i feel like am bodering too much.. Is this really over or can i do something to save the relationship?

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A female reader, johannabanana United States +, writes (18 July 2010):

johannabanana agony auntIf a guy wants you he goes after you. It's as simple as that. First of all just stop talking to him all together. If you being out of his life bothers him he we call you and try to talk to you. If you don't hear from him he doesn't care and it's time to move on. And if you see him next year after he treated you like that make sure every time he sees you around you look confident and happy like you didn't need him then and you don't need him now. That catches any guys attention and he will feel just as bad as you did we he never called. If he didn't treat you as great as you deserve to be treated find someone who will.

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