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writes:Im 19 been going out with my partner for nearly 5 years, he's cheated on me twice each were not one night stands but was actually forming relationships with them. When i asked him he lied and i finished it but i always come back because i love him, but at the same time i know i can do better and i hate myelf for have putting up with it twice. what do you think i should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): well i'm just 11 so i don't know what good this will do but here goes... ask him if he loves you if he says yes then tell him to quit cheating if he says no or he says yes and still cheats then (no offence)dump his ass and ty to do something or go out with someone else to try and get your mind off of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2007): You are not going back to him out of love. If this was love based, you would realize you keep setting yourself up for a fall and with it all the pain.
You haven't forgiven him and probably won't.
He represents Dad or Mom who also cheated and walked out on you and left you feeling unloved and abandoned which has left you feeling like no one good can love you and you don't really deserve better.
Snap out of this cycle.
You deserve a loving young man. You are worth it. You have so much to give, you are beautiful and amazing.
Heal from whatever still hurts you and realize you have the power to break from this cycle of hurt.
Get strong, learn to love and respect yourself and with this, the love and respect you deserve will see this and give you the respect and love you want and need.
Best Wishes.
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