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writes: I posted a question earlier this week about my boyfriend not acting the same. I really need to know what to do. I don't want to be jumping to conclusions about the situation, but he isn't acting like the same man I fell in love with. If I don't call him, he don't call me. Like today he hasn't called me and I am trying not to call him. I want to to see how long will it be before he calls. So it's really hard. We live in different cities, about 45 min away. He talks about marriage but lately that take has been being brought up so I really need to know what to do. Something just isn't sitting right with me about the excuses he is telling me. Can somebody please tell me, should I give him to tommorrow to call before I break up with him? Because it seems like he already broke up with me. I tried talking to him last night, asking him what going on with him and he just said "Stress." Now the old him use to talk to me about whatever going on with him no matter what it is. Now I am about to call his azz and tell him it's over to go ahead and live his life because I love him, but I love myself too!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2006): i already talk to him about why he is stressed and he says the same old thing that i really believe he is lieing but he did call today talking all nice but i really didn't have to much to say i let him did the talking then he just out of the blue gave me a fake i love u T i am willing to give it the rest of this week to see how it goes
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006): I know this must be an upsetting time for you. Explain to him what you are feeling and ask him what has caused stress. Explain that the way he is acting is effecting your relationship. Think over and over before you decide whether to break up with him. Think of all the reasons why you should and the reasons why you should not and have you given him enough time to calm down from his stress?. Then come to a desision whether you should or not. I hope my answer will help you.
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