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writes: i've been 8 yrs running w/a man who i know w/out a doubt loves me unconditionally.i was very young and very naieve when we first met,and i've put him through alot(during the first 2 yrs)he has always been my knight and shining armor.when other women complained about their men i felt blessed!yet,for the past 6 months or so i've become insane jealous. there is no proof and i don't beleive he would ever ever do it but it has become a terrible fear.i'm so depressed sometimes for no reason.i have dreams of him cheating and have entertained the notion of spying on him.i feel violent rage when i think of him w/another woman. i am not pregnant,and he's never given cause so what do i do???is medication an option?can i go back to who i was? i love him so much i feel lately like a stalker!! help!
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Maybe you should see a GP or a counsellor - it is odd this has come out of nowhere so perhaps it is a medical thing. It does seem odd so maybe there is a medical explanation.
I would have a chat to your GP and he/she may be able to suggest the next course of action.
Good luck
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (14 May 2006):
 It sounds to me like you are under a lot of stress, and maybe feeling a little depressed (which sometimes shows itself as anger and jealousy). He maybe just your nearest target for anger - try to figure out what other aspects of your life are bothering you and talk to him about how you feel so he can be a bit understanding of your problem.
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