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writes:can i move on and trust my boyfriend again?before i started dating my boyfriend he was in a two year relationship with another girl who goes to my 6th form( me, my boyfriend and his ex all go to the same very small school). when they broke up she took it really hard, its been over a year and she is stil desperatly in love with him but he has been with me for 9 months. i recently found some emails on his computer between the two of them arranging to meet up and get tattoos and then pull up and have sex in his car. when i confronted them both i discovered that in the last 3 months they've met up 3 tyms to have sex. twice while i was away on holiday n once when i was at home. It really really hurt me not just the fact that i love him alot and i thought he loved me too but we were going to get tattoo's together, reading the emails is so painful because he says so many things that i thought were special and unique to us.he says he's sorri n i think i believe him he was so devestated when he thought that it was over and he desperatly keeps telling me that he loves me and he regrets it so much, he'l do what ever i want jus to get me back. he says that he did it because he knew he had the power to, that she would just come running and i know where the insecurity in himself comes from which would make him do that even thought its an nasty and evil thing to do on so many levels. we are trying to work through things but i refuse to sleep with him at the moment because i cant help but feel like our relationship is just about sex which makes me feel cheap n hurt. i want to trust him again but all i keep thinking is that if i hadn't found out would it still be going on and is he stil lieing to me.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 September 2008):
Wow, so he has it in him, not only to cheat on you... but to coldly use and BADLY hurt a girl, purely because he ENJOYED using her and knowing he can cause her huge pain.
Does he go out at night and torture cats too? Have there been any unexplained pet killings? Old ladies getting beaten up?
This boy is capable of doing this terrible thing, AND cheating on you.....
If you forgive him then you are far too stupid to be doing a levels.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): You are still so YOUNG
Go out live life and FORGET that loser. Go look in the mirror and tell your self I AM NOT SOME SEX OBJECT. I AM WORTH MUCH MORE THAN THAT. Get some self respect girl you will find your one just he isnt the one for you hes a stooge! good luck
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