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female
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30-35,
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writes:This is a bit complicated and hard to explain but I will try. There is this guy I have liked for over a year. He has such a gorgeous smile, big beauitful eyes and he's just pefect in my eyes. He compliments me and makes me feel good about myself. He hates when I put myself down and so he's always cheering me up. I think I love him to be honest. I know I am young and vulnerable but no-one actually realises how much he means to me. Last year we both liked each other but lacked the confidence to tell either of us so eventually he met another girl and because she was a lot more outgoing they had sex and she just basically gives him what he wants. She had cheated on him before a few times. I don't think he likes her because he is always horrible about her calling her a slut and saying how he hates her and cbb with her. So just before christmas he finished with her and he told my pal he really liked me and she tried to convince him to tell me as she knew how much i liked him. He didn't but she got me to tell him, which is not liked me because am normally really shy. A few days later he asked me to go out and said it was important and he told me he liked me to. I was actually so happy but really nervous because there's not many guys I have liked that like me back. He asked to kiss me that night but I said no, I really wanted to but I just didn't want to make a fool of myself as I haven't kissed a guy before and didn't want it to go wrong. He knew this and said he'd wait till i was ready. On hogmany he was meant to come to a party to see me and he sat textin an phoning me all night just talkin and sayin he would be down soon but his pal didn't want him to go and leave him so i told him to stay there. That night he told me he loved me and all this stuff and i was just over the moon and really thought something could happen. When i got back to school on the monday i had found out he told my best pal he liked me and his ex and I was so gutted, he went away with her and i found out they were going back out. I cried a lot I was heartbroken and he kept saying he felt bad and just wanted me to tell him what I wanted because he wanted me to be happy, which was impossible because all I wanted was him... now he flirts with me still and it's really noticeable and he says he still likes me and that. What should I do? I think I love him
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reader, lovelynightmare  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 I'd wait it out.Bad people usually don't change, so if his ex continues to be a cheater and a loser, he'll break up with her again. But if you notice their relationship to be pretty solid for a while, it'll be hard, but count your losses and move on.Good luck,lovelynightmare
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