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writes:Okay so me and my 'boyfriend' have had a thing for each other for a few months now, although we just started going out like a month ago due to him being busy. But the thing is he's STILL been busy. I'm 15 and and 16. I'm always free, able to hang out and he's ALWAYS working and has football practice and by the end of the day he's too tired to hang out (understandable). But let me get to the problem. Recently, (like a week ago) he's been acting VERY strange. When he usually goes to bed, he says "love you" and lately he hasn't been saying it. I know that sounds cheezy, but its just part of it. He also usually calls me like "babe" or "Baby" or "sweetie" and now he doesnt call me anything. He also doesn't seem very interested in talking to me cuz he isnt talkative when he usually is. He rarely texts me, and i know it might be because of working and all that but before, that was NEVER an issue, he'd text me all the time. I honestly don't know what to expect, and I really hope it isn't breaking up with me because i like him a lot. :/What could be the reason for the way he's acting?Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2010): It could be he is truly busy, and its just that he has too much on his plate right now, or possibly he has lost interest.(Let's hope not)
I've been through a similar situation, where I was confused as to whether or not he was interested. It just turned out he was too busy, among other things but that was mainly part of it.
But u need to talk to him, tell him how u feel, I mean your his girlfriend u should be getting some attention too. He needs to be able to learn how to balance and prioritize between work, football, u and whatever else he needs to do. He can't just keep u to the side without having to mend with.
Whatever u do decide to do, keep in mind that communication is very helpful and it is essential in any type of relationship, best of luck.
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