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writes: i really dont know what to do about my current boyfriend. he'll say he'll come and see me and then go off with his mates instead. of corse i dont mind him hanging out with his mates but when he says one thing and does another it irritates me so much. when we're alone he'll be really affectionate but in front of others he makes me look like a mug for putting up with the way he treats me. i really dont know how to fix this. i dont want to break up with him because when he's in a good mood it couldnt be better between us and i know that we go together really well as we have so much in common, it's just that if i dont put the effort in we would never see each other as he refuses to make any effort what so ever. it feels as though he likes winding me up to see how much i'll put up with. he constantly talks about 'fit' girls in front of me saying that he's with them ect and when i get upset about it he tells me not to get so serious as he's just joking but he knows i dont find it very funny as in my last relationship my now ex partner cheated on me with one of my so called friends so he all ready knows i have insecurities about people cheting on me. please help. i really want this relationship to work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): He doesn´t seem good to you..When he treats you as his princess when you are alone together, but so very different among others, it seem as he is having some serious issues. I wouldn´t put up with that. If I where you i´d give him an ultimatum. I´d say that either you treat me fine among others, or you can forget that I´ll hang with you among your mates/others. And about putting his mates in front of being with you, that´s not good at all. Either you say it´s over, because you are worthy of someone who knows how to love you for who you are with or without others there. or you stay and you´ll probably feel terrible if he doesn´t make the necessary changes to make it work. The guy you oughta have should love you and respect you. That´s the most important thing. He should be proud to be your boyfriend and want to show others his love for you.
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