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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and met him while he had a girlfriend. He is still with her but said I'm the only one he wants to be with in the long term. In a way I believe him cuz he takes risks to see me. He said he wants children with me. I'm 21 and he is 30 with no children and not married. I love him. What can I do?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 He is leading you up the garden path. Having his cake and eating it. For what reason does he stay with his *serious* GF? They have no kids, are not married. There are no ties there other than the fact he wants to still be in a relationship with her. He is feeding you the line *I only wanna be with you* so you don't go off and find somebody who can fully commit to you. And like a fish on a hook he is reeling you in!
Dump this toxic loser and get yourself a real man who doesn't lie to you.
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 This guy is laeding you on. I would be cautious with this guy and personally I problaly would not trust him. It's been 1 year and he is still with his girlfriend, that doesn't sound too much like he wants to be with you long term. If he wanted to be with you longterm, he wouldn't still be with his short-term solution unless he wants to keep you running along with this charade longterm. and how can you be sure he would not do the same to you down the line? I would stay away from someone who has cheated on their partner for this long of a time..
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reader, bridget +, writes (7 March 2006):
 Hey there.... How can this man be your boyfriend when he never actually left his girlfriend???What this man says and does are two completely different things and I think you are wasting your time with him..On the other hand if you love him as much as you say you do and you can see a long term relationship then give him an ultimatum and stick to it..He will see you mean truth and you should move this along you could be wasting valuable time... Good LuckJacqueline
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