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writes:Im in love with a girl but her parents will never allow it. her mom works for the schools so they have seen my record which isnt all that bad but i have my regrets on it and they havent even met me. she tried to break up with her current BF so we could go out but her parents said that even if she did break up with him she wouldnt be able to go out with me. about two days after she told me that her parents said we couldnt go out they said we couldnt even be friends and spoke to alot of people around the school to alert her parents if they saw us hanging out and if they found out they would move her out of state. we still hang out all the time and when i said i should at least meet her mom so that maybe she wouldnt be so against us being friends she said no. i have gone out with my fair share of girls and she makes me feel so much better than ive ever been before and i want to be with her but i dont know how to procede. any help would be very much appreciated. thanks in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know what she says is true because i know her and how she feels about me and i know her mom is really strict to the point that she would move her daughter. and her mom maybe slightly crazy for doing this i personally heard her mom say this and her mom utterly hates me i get good grades in school A's and B's and before last year i really had only gone out with 1 girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2007): Keep in touch and wait till your both 18!
then your parents dont control you. in the meantime you can go out with other people. but you will still be able to have a friendship and can get together when you are older!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (10 May 2007):
 How about working really hard and getting better results? They'll see that too I guess?
If you've 'gone out with your fair share of girls' at your age then you're probably spending a little too much time thinking about girls and not enough thinking about work to be honest.
Between lessons you might want to consider whether this girls is being honest with you. That her parents would move her to a different state because of this sounds like garbage to me. No sane parent would do that. Do you think maybe she just doesn't want to date you and is using her parents as an excuse?
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