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writes:im a 17yr male in grade 12 and ive just started dating a girl in grade 10 who is 15. im having a hard time convincing my mom that its ok that im two years older... how can I convince her that its ok, or rather, is it actually ok? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (29 October 2009):
 The problem isn't that you're 17 and your g/f is 15, the problem is in a very short time you will be 18 and you're g/f will still be under age. This changes everything. You can be convicted of rape because you will be considered an adult, and she still a child, in the eyes of the law. If her parents find out you're having sex, they could bring charges against you. You should stick with girls your age. The age gap is really no big deal as long as both of you are past 18 years of age(like she's 18 and you're 21) Then it's perfectly fine.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (28 October 2009):
 Give her time, let her see how good you 2 are together
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009): its MY mom im trying to convince, her mom is fine with it!!!
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (28 October 2009):
 I think its fine :)
obviously theres the issue that if you sleep with her, its illegal, but hopefully your not planning that for a while.
So no worries.
Prehaps invite her over so your mum can see what a lovely mature girl she is?
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