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writes:hii okay well basically im in a sticky situationi got 3 boys who like me ( and admitted including my bf which btw no one knows about ... ) and 2 other boys in my class who are also my friends ... one of em is one of my best friends and other is just a good friend.okay so lets refer my secret bf as C , my best friend as B and my other friend as D.we have a ball coming up and naturally C wants to go wid me and i'd like to go with him so i thought tht was settled , then suddenly D ses he likes me more then just a friend and asks me to the ball ( btw he's a shy person and so simliar to me ) and i sed im not sure , then yesterday B txted me saying he likes me still ( ex-bf but cheated on me ...wid my girl best friend :@ lol ) and wants me to go with himthen at skwl i sed i aint sure about going to the ball wid D to B ( this is b4 i new that B wanted to go with me ) and after school B shouts out in front of everybody, that D wants to go wid me but i sed i dont want to. he said it so bluntly and suddenly and it was infront of everyone from our classand i new that this would deffinatly knock his confidence back and make him feel upset and embarrased ( just the way he is; but then agn who wouldn't feel like that ? ) and C has gone to france for a week ( school trip ) so i haven't talked to him in ages, and now everything is so mixed up and i dont know who to go with bcoz they all saying something like : o never mind me , just go with the other person who asked u , and im a person who finds saying no very hard, i am usually a strong tough person speak my mind and its easy but when i know that emotions and feelings are on the line i get undesisive ( which is so unlike me ) so help please cus right now ... my bf doesn't have a clue whats going on D is very upset and things even tho i explained that i did not say those things B sed and B is just a flirt.so help please ! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): ...is this an exam question? we have answers ABCD - which one is correct?
you have a boyfriend - thats who you should be with - this is not pic'n'mix. if he is your BF secret or otherwise, then choose him.
failing that draw straws, because i cannot tell who is who and which.
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